What is your view on relationship? What is your experience like on the male-female flow? I’m talking about the one you are thinking about.
Now, let’s reach out to the guys that want to get into a relationship with the ladies. Few questions I sincerely would love to ask though it’s a write-up.
*How old are you?
*What phase/aspect of life are you presently?
*How do you define a relationship?
*How do you want to express your relationship with her?
*What are your expectations from the relationship?
Sure these questions make some sense to the male readers out there. How about the ladies reading this as well? One thing that female readers should always bear at the back of their minds is that these may be questions for the male readers out there, but they also mean a lot to you and help you get a long way in choosing the right man for the purpose of existence. This is when maturity proves itself. Matthew 7:3-4 of the Holy word talks about the removal of specks our own eyes first, before that of others. Purpose seeking begins with me. It begins with every one of us. I say to myself as a Pastor once said that “If you are looking for the next leader, all you need do is look into the mirror. There alone will you find the person”. The problem solver is right before u. All we need to do is man-up and do what we have been called to do. A man of reasoning goes a long way with Christ and on wart. A man that thinks of purpose before involving someone else has done as much as saving a nation. In thinking deeply, other questions should and would arise, and this should stir up something in us as men; the first set of species created in His own image and likeness before the woman came. If I had my way, i would give “relationship” another synonym which would be “purpose”. Relationship with another is different from how we view it. Its best description is how God views it. View it like God has, to prove that you’ve been made in His image and likeness.
#To be continued…